Sunday, March 31, 2013

Ho Ho Ho Holi Hai, 2013


Holi is a Hindu holiday- a festival of colors! It is to celebrate the beginning of spring, as well as some Hindu mythology that deals with a demonness getting burned.   This is me all cute and clean, waiting for my friends to arrive, and clearly not the least bit vain. 

  
The Holi Festival we went to was at the Radha Madhav Dham Temple. The temple and grounds were beautiful! It was a gorgeous Saturday afternoon.

And here is the crew, the gringos (plus one Mexican). Not a speck of color on us yet.


Then these two arrived... Naughty and Nasty, I mean, Nadia and Natasha. Before the color play started, they attacked my group with red and pink!  It pretty much went crazy from there. 

I just love this picture of me and my two sisters!


Still in the thick of it all. Left to Right: Michelle, Molly, Abraham, me, and Jeremy.


 After hearing at least a dozen songs with the words- "Ho, Ho, Ho Holi Hai", we were all holied out and ready for some dinner. 



So we piled in Abraham's truck, posed for a few more pics with our flaming cheeto-esque faces...



...and went to the only place we were daring enough to enter int... RUDY's BBQ! Since you have access to a big hand washing station, and eat on picnic tables, we figured it wouldn't be too crazy of an idea. 


Notice the stickers we proudly wore! Yep, we are that funny!  

 
 We had lots of stares, and many inquires as to our appearance.  A few guessed right what we had just participate in. One may say we were also mistaken for a reenactment of "Brave Heart", and I might have been mistaken for Thing 1 or Thing 2.


One more time just for you Molly- 

Ho, Ho, Ho Holi Hai!!!!!!

Why Seek Ye the Living Among the Dead?

I believe in the literal resurrection of Jesus Christ. That his spirit was reunited with his body on the 3 day and that He is a glorified and Living Being now. I love the account of Mary seeing the resurrected Christ at the empty garden tomb. 


John 20:3-18

3Peter therefore went forth, and that other disciple, and came to the sepulchre.
4So they ran both together: and the other disciple did outrun Peter, and came first to the sepulchre.
5And he stooping down, and looking in, saw the linen clothes lying; yet went he not in.
6Then cometh Simon Peter following him, and went into the sepulchre, and seeth the linen clothes lie,
7And the napkin, that was about his head, not lying with the linen clothes, but wrapped together in a place by itself.
8Then went in also that other disciple, which came first to the sepulchre, and he saw, and believed.
9For as yet they knew not the scripture, that he must rise again from the dead.
10Then the disciples went away again unto their own home.
11¶But Mary stood without at the sepulchre weeping: and as she wept, she stooped down, and looked into the sepulchre,
12And seeth two angels in white sitting, the one at the head, and the other at the feet, where the body of Jesus had lain.
13And they say unto her, Woman, why weepest thou? She saith unto them, Because they have taken away my Lord, and I know not where they have laid him.
14And when she had thus said, she turned herself back, and saw Jesus standing, and knew not that it was Jesus.
15Jesus saith unto her, Woman, why weepest thou? whom seekest thou? She, supposing him to be the gardener, saith unto him, Sir, if thou have borne him hence, tell me where thou hast laid him, and I will take him away.
16Jesus saith unto her, Mary. She turned herself, and saith unto him, Rabboni; which is to say, Master.
17Jesus saith unto her, Touch me not; for I am not yet ascended to my Father: but go to my brethren, and say unto them, I ascend unto my Father, and your Father; and to my God, and your God.
18Mary Magdalene came and told the disciples that she had seen the Lord, and that he had spoken these things unto her.

I had two patients this week that helped remind me of the gift of the resurrection that we celebrate today. 

One is a women in her 80's with Alzheimer's. She seems rather depressed and knows her memory is poor.  She was humming and singing songs from "Oklahoma" for the first half of our treatment session.  I asked her if she liked hymns. She said yes, but she couldn't remember any of them. I asked her if she knew "Come Thou Fount"? She sure did, we stumbled our way through singing the first two verses. Then I had an idea, I went and grabbed my iPhone. I have the Mormon Tabernacle Choir's version of it, along with a few other hymns. So while she did exercises, I played a few songs. I have heard of music therapy, and I hear it does wonders in patients with dementia, but I don't know how to effectively use it. I do know however that she was alert and calm, and her eyes were bright. At the end she said to me- "Thank you for sharing with me good Christian music." I thought to myself, one day this old frail woman will have a perfectly functioning brain and body because of the gift of the Resurrection.

My second experience was with a sweet lady, also in her 80's who has been a patient of mine in the past. Her husband was also a patient of mine. As I saw her in the waiting room for a new evaluation, I went to say hello. I asked her how Mr. C was doing since was not with her. Tears came to her eyes and she said she called us two weeks ago to let us know he passed away.  She told me briefly how he had gotten sick fast. She said, "He was holding my hand, and then he left me." My heart ached for this new widow. They had been married 66 years. In this case I thought to myself, he may have left her, but he is not gone, and one day he to will have a perfect body.

 I am so grateful for a job that helps me see the doctrines I believe in so strongly come to life. 

To close my Easter thoughts, I share a quote by Elder Jeffrey R Holland, an apostle of the Lord Jesus Christ in this dispensation of time. 

"...Against all odds and with none to help or uphold Him, Jesus of Nazareth, the living Son of the living God, restored physical life where death had held sway and brought joyful, spiritual redemption out of sin, hellish darkness, and despair. With faith in the God He knew was there, He could say in triumph, “Father, into thy hands I commend my spirit.” 19 Brothers and sisters, one of the great consolations of this Easter season is that because Jesus walked such a long, lonely path utterly alone, we do not have to do so. His solitary journey brought great company for our little version of that path—the merciful care of our Father in Heaven, the unfailing companionship of this Beloved Son, the consummate gift of the Holy Ghost, angels in heaven, family members on both sides of the veil, prophets and apostles, teachers, leaders, friends. All of these and more have been given as companions for our mortal journey because of the Atonement of Jesus Christ and the Restoration of His gospel. Trumpeted from the summit of Calvary is the truth that we will never be left alone nor unaided, even if sometimes we may feel that we are. Truly the Redeemer of us all said: “I will not leave you comfortless: [My Father and] I will come to you 
[and abide with you].” 
(April 2009, "None Were With Him")

Thursday, March 28, 2013

Warm Chocolate Melting Cake...aka Lava Cake

Recipe found on Epicurious...



Warm Chocolate Melting  Cake …aka Lava Cake

Ingredients:

12 teaspoons plus 5 tablespoons of sugar
8 oz bittersweet (not unsweetened) or semi-sweet chocolate, chopped
¾ cup butter
*3 large eggs
3* egg yolks (yes, that is 3 eggs and then 3 extra egg yolks)
1 tablespoon flour

ice cream to serve with dessert

Preparation:

Generously butter 8- ¾ cup soufflĂ©/ramekin cups.  (I partially melted the ¾ cup butter from ingredients and then brushed the cups with it, and saved the remaining butter for later) Sprinkle inside of each dish with 1 ½ teaspoon sugar. Set aside.

Stir chocolate and butter in a heavy saucepan over low heat until smooth. Remove form heat. In separate bowl with electric mixer beat eggs, egg yolks,  and remaining sugar. Beat until thick and pale yellow, about 8 minutes.

Fold in 1/3 warm chocolate mixture into egg mixture, then fold in the remaining chocolate. Fold in flour. Divide into dishes. (Can be made a day ahead and chilled, then bring to room temperature before continuing.)

Preheat oven to 425. Place ramekins on a baking sheet. Bake until cakes edges are puffed and slightly cracked but center 1 inch moves slightly when dish is shaken gently, about 13 minutes.  (in my electric oven it was done in 10)

Serve immediately with ice cream and enjoy! 

* it is ooey gooey in the center, not dry

Sunday, March 24, 2013

Aware of my singleness, BUT....

 I was very aware of my singleness this weekend...

Yesterday I went to a baby shower for a lifelong friend expecting baby number 3. I am thrilled for her. Her kids are like nieces to me. There were 4 of us who started out in middle school there together. Two are married, one is engaged, and then there is me. I'm not even dating anyone. I wasn't even slightly unhappy at the party. I had a great time. Just very aware that I'm the "single" one.

 Then last night I went to the Walnut Creek Ward Young Women Camp Fundraiser. It was a spaghetti dinner with dessert auction. I bought a plate of peanut butter cup cookies and inherited a caramel cheesecake that my mom bid on and paid for but didn't really want to take home. Again, I wasn't even slightly unhappy at the event. I sat myself next to a family with 4 cute kiddos and learned all about underwater creatures.  Although not unhappy, very aware that I was the single one in the bunch.

Then there was today. I had an interesting experience happen at church.

The teacher was talking about the importance of doing family history and temple work for our ancestors. She said everyone should be involved with as much work related to the temple as they can. She said of course there are exceptions, for example- "Tamara, you are single, so it's not like you can have your sealing ordinance done." That's right, she "singled" me out. Without missing a beat I said, "I know, and even tried on the new family search to click on 'find a spouse' and nothing happened." I didn't expect that the whole room would burst out laughing so hard. Afterwards a friend came up to me and said her heart when out to me when I was pointed out as single and unable to participate in all the temple ordinances, but when I followed up with my comment she was like- oh yeah, Tamara has got this, and handled it gracefully. Until my friend pointed it out, I hadn't realized just how awkward of a comment that was for the teacher to make. Guess I was lost in thought.

After church I took the cheese cake my mom gave me to a family in my ward. The S family has 5 cute kiddos. I have never been to their home, and I can't even tell you their kids names. I just saw them in sacrament meeting today and decided to take it to them.  They were quite surprised and it was fun to do. I don't say this to toot my own horn or brag, most service opportunities should be private. When I walked back to my car I started crying. I thought, "Heavenly Father, that is what I want. That is exactly what I want. I want to have my own cute, drive you crazy, ultra busy, messy face, kid in a superwoman costume, smiley, happy little family." 

I was more aware of my singleness this weekend then I have been in awhile.

BUT, I am not in the least unhappy with my life.

I ate creamy jalapeno and watched Indiana Jones on my new TV with friend. I worked out with one of my besties. I watched my "niece" throw her mom a surprise baby shower. I made a care package for a two friends who's poor hearts both got bruised recently.  I made homemade breadsticks and warm chocolate melting cake for a friend who just got a job promotion. I helped out another friend who desperately needed a neck massage. I got to watch "Hook" with my "nephew".

I am indeed Happy and Hopeful in 2013!

Let the happiness keep unfolding! I thank God for the richness that I call my life!

Saturday, March 16, 2013

Painting with a Twist

I love to paint. I have had no formal classes but I really enjoy it. 

Michelle asked me a few months ago if I wanted to go to this class called "Painting with a Twist" where you pick a day on the website with the featured painting you want to do, and then they teach you step by step how to paint it. You bring your own beverage and snacks. Most brought wine...Michelle and I polished off a whole bottle of Martinelli's Sparkling Cider! 
She also had a brilliant idea....
this beauty...

It's Chili's Lava cake...she knows my love of the dessert!
One week after my cousin Beth recommended it, I tried chile covered dried mangos. They were HOT. Duh! Should have picked up on that.


The canvas was given to us with the Austin Skyline already drawn on it. We painted over it lightly and you could still see it. 

It was so much fun! We would paint...


Then take a break as it dried.... 




 Then we would paint some more. See the plain skyline, and the subtle reflections in the water.




 If you look close you can see how similar yet different they are! 



Final product, I love it! 
It is hard to see well here, but there are bats flying out from under the Congress bridge! 


Saturday, March 9, 2013

BFF Time and A New Skill


Nadia + Natasha + Tamara = Best Friends
(so middle school, I know, but that is in fact where we became friends!)

This magical day started with brunch at a Mediterranean restaurant. Yummy! Can you say hummus and fresh pita bread? 

Then on to Heavenly pedicures.

Such different selections in colors! Like my paper flip flop?
This was in the salon. I totally want it!

Since my toes weren't quite dry enough for real shoes, I got to enter the movie theater in style!
After a million attempts to get it right, we settled on liking this one!
 
And after a short break we resumed the festivities for some ZUMBA!

AND then Natasha taught me a trick! Going from yoga pose 3 leg dog...

 And turn....


And turn....

 
Almost there...




Tu-dah! 

 



I think this new skill must come in handy somehow. 
 
Needless to say, it was one fabulously fabulous day with my sisters! 

Seniors rule...wink wink!

Thursday, March 7, 2013

French Fries



I started treating a patient this week that has been a patient of mine once before. One the exterior he appears gruff and crabby. Once I peeled that away, I found out he is really just a nice old man whose bark is much louder than his bite.  For some reason he thinks I am some diamond he stumbled upon. If he had his way I'd be the only one who ever treated him. It's actually a bit intimidating because he puts so much trust in me to help him get better. He is retired but works part-time at a fast food restaurant to keep himself occupied, which means he smells like french fries.  Even when he goes home to change before coming to therapy. French Fries. After he left the other day my hands smelled like french fries. 
It makes me smile thinking about it. 

There is another reason he makes me smile though, a much more meaningful reason. Several times when I first started treating him we spoke of religion. He even asked for a Book of Mormon when he was discharged, but said he had to hide it from his wife. 
The first thing he asked me this week was- 

"Are you married yet"? 
I said, "no not yet".  
To which he asked- "Are you dating anybody"? 
My honest response was- "No, but I might have my eye on someone if that makes you happy".  
He asked- "Is he Mormon, because that's all I care about for you, he has to be Mormon". 

This man then proceeded to tell me that I am at the second to last on a very long list of people he prays for. He is praying for me to find a Mormon man to marry, because I am "too nice of a girl to not get married"!  I know he is sincere and I was touched to think that for over a year this man has been praying for me. 

I agree Mr. French Fry. I agree. Thanks for your prayers! I'll take 'em. In the meantime, life is grand!

My job sure has some delightful moments!

Sunday, March 3, 2013

Disneyland 2013

All packed and ready to go...

Cutest little princess in the world. She saw her shirt and said- "A princess hat, mommy I wub it!" Translation- I LOVE IT!

Got to love great mid-ride shots! Splash Mountain!

Favorite part of the whole trip, holding hands with a 5 year old everywhere we went. Warms my heart!

All of our princess shirts!

Anna's Favorite Princess...Cinderella! A dream is a wish your heart makes.

How to kill time standing in the long line for the Cars ride? Stuff cotton candy in your mouth!

The Beast's library told me that my personal Disney character is Cinderella. Yes! I'm definitely going to marry a prince!

World of Color- AMAZING!!!!!

His face is on FIRE! Watch out, he was also discovered as the rebel spy on the Star Tours ride. He just looks innocent.

Pretty pretty painted face!

My first and favorite cousin! 

The best tour guides ever!

Our little escape to see the Aladdin Musical. Me and two kiddos. See how happy we are?

Lego Store! GRRRRRR!

Help, I am trapped on Pirate Island! Don't want to end up like the guy to my right!